Madrid 2008

GMP Building

GMP Building

It is a sad fact that I wrote this post almost exactly one year ago, but never found the time to post it.  So here is the post as it was originally written, last November.

What is it about a new city that brings everything into focus?

I had the chance to wander around alone and learn my way by experience. I had, nerd that I am, studied maps ahead of time so I could walk with confidence. (holla to Google maps for the street views!) I found the architecture beautiful

Madrid Architecture II

Madrid Architecture II

and intricate. Check out the GMP building: in America, it would probably be in an aging concrete block.

I was surprised to find that most people, even in touristy areas, did not speak English. I tried not to be an ugly American and demand that they speak English. My sister made me a Spanish guide and I did my best to speak what little pidgin I could. My attempts fell into two categories: either the person had no clue what I meant, or they understood me and then started speaking muy rapido en español, at which point I had to nod and pretend I understood. I would often think of the right thing to say about 30 seconds after the exchange ended.

Sculpture in the Circle

Sculpture in the Circle

Just as all of Oz’s characters end up with a quasi-Gaelic brogue, all of my foreign languages are thrown into one dusty, underused corner of my brain. I rolled through saying merci, gracias, thanks, even a grazie. Wth? I seriously question if I have the ability to absorb any language well, other than English.

Churros and Chocolate

Churros and Chocolate

That said, I found a chocolatier and had Spanish chocolat con churros, ordering and paying with no problems. I was grateful for the stop because the wind was coldly cutting through my scarf.

The chocolat was syrupy but thankfully less sweet than expected, and was delicious when I dipped and ate the churros.

Hot Chocolate- Welcome Respite from the Cold

Welcome Respite from the Cold

Sipping it on its own, it was a bit flat and could have benefited from a touch of hot pepper.

I chose the freshly made vegetarian bar, not the OTHER place across the street

Freshly made vegetarian bar, not the OTHER place across the street

Significantly warmer, I wandered back onto the streets and did some shopping.

I stopped to watch several street musicians including a non-sequitur Mariachi band. Isn’t that Mexican?

I saw a sign for a vegetarian restaurant and, even though it was falafel, I felt ever-so-cosmopolitan ordering and being understood. Note the burger joint in the picture.

Take that, big box chain!

Note what the American Breakfast is!

Note what the American Breakfast is!

The museums were closed so I had little choice but to go back to my hotel for a much-needed nap. I felt like I was missing a bit of Spain; however, jet lag was colliding with my usual lack of sleep for a dangerous possibility of a migraine.

Dance Lessons in Spain

Dance Lessons in Spain

So I mentioned that a new city can lend focus. Basically I was thrown completely out of my comfort zone and into a new situation. Doing so caused me to reflect on my life and the way I am running things. I committed to a few new things and recommitted to one old thing: I need to take better care of myself. Doing so is the key to everything else.

Anti-American sentiments.  I stayed far away!

Anti-American sentiments. I stayed far away!

Every commitment I wanted to make relies on my being at my best. For example, I want to do a better job at work. My biggest barrier is when I’m too tired to focus well and the day is spent answering emails and fetching more coffee.

I think my mode has been to burn hard and fast and try to do everything. I was only allowed to stop when I became physically ill from the stress. It’s hard to justify resting when there is so much else to be done. I’m starting to realize that getting that rest can actually help me to be better at my tasks.

Madrid Architecture I

Madrid Architecture I

So why am I like a four-year-old who won’t go to bed on time??

A Summary of My Week – 2009-11-01

  • Funk schwayy! #
  • If you know it, sing it!! #
  • forgot how disgusting my hair smells after going to a smoky bar. Showering didn't kill it. Blech. #
  • smells coffee but can't quite muster the energy to crawl toward it. #
  • @amycolon I still wear rollers to bed sometimes! Yes, I am 83 🙂 in reply to amycolon #
  • watched the Colts WIN again; now at Hinkle Fieldhouse watching the sport of the Midwest: basketball! Hoosier love and go Butler!!! #
  • is absorbing the fun of basketball and feeling nostalgic. #

A Summary of My Week – 2009-10-26

  • is enjoying the company of three great kids. #
  • is donating blood. Let it bleed… #
  • @gardengnome1 the microwave quiz is misleading! I use it to heat water & make rice, not to cook. I'd love to see how different cooks use it! in reply to gardengnome1 #
  • is enjoying Indian food with Ainsley, to be joined by friends in a minute. I miss my Khyati!!!!!! #
  • @gardengnome1 ha ha! I think to throw rice and water in a bowl isn't cooking but you are right LOL in reply to gardengnome1 #
  • doesn't understand why I have to shut up about my morals but nobody else does. #
  • I was broken without you. I'd rather be broken with you by my side.
    http://bit.ly/KgEXO #
  • @jasonbaldwin you sound like that Barbie who said "math is hard" 🙂 in reply to jasonbaldwin #
  • is sauteeing mushroom, onions, and garlic as Uncle Bryan's sous chef for the highfalootin' tailgate. #
  • is headed to the tailgate with the Willetts. The weather is crisp and I love my friends; what a great day! #
  • is playing a lot of football and my forearms are sore. Mia, Mia! #

A Summary of My Week – 2009-10-19

  • I'm ticked that @CarltonBale touched my phone. And made me tweet. #
  • Roasted cauliflower and Brussels sprouts in sage cream sauce http://yfrog.com/16xiopj #
  • Pan-seared mushroom gnocchi with mushrooms, cannelini, & roasted peppers. Don't ask for a recipe; I didn't use one! http://yfrog.com/168x9wj #
  • RT @Knharter: Roasted cauliflower and Brussels sprouts in sage cream sauce http://yfrog.com/16xiopj #
  • RT @Knharter: I'm ticked that @CarltonBale touched my phone. And made me tweet. #
  • is at a jazz performance in Columbus. #
  • RT @tferriss: Are you "gruntled" yet? http://su.pr/4TJ38g Explorations in language. #
  • has a heating pad for my bad hip. Old age stinks. #

Falling in the Ocean

Atlantic- Calm at Low Tide

Atlantic- Calm at Low Tide

Last night I had my first free swim in the Atlantic ocean in years.  If you’ve never felt the tide coming in against the shore of an oceanic barrier island, you may not have felt the unpredictable power of water.

I have come to the Isle of Palms many times.  I remember standing in knee-deep water at the age of 13, and attacking the waves like a 90-pound Sumo wrestler.  I always learned when the waves knocked me over, and boy, did they knock me over.  The murky waters off of the Carolina coast taught me to body surf, to (attempt to) windsurf, to do backflips in a current.  In recent years I’ve been less frequently, and last year, it was too cold to swim for more than a quick dip.

So here I am, over 20 years later.  I’ve been ocean-swimming in calmer waters recently but nothing like this coast.  Even in Hawaii I stuck to tame waters.  My health has been rocky for several months and has taken a sharp, bad turn this week.  It’s been a vacation of resolutions and rebirth, and the illness has just brought everything into more focus.  I’ve been lying in bed and listening to the surf pound the sand.  I’ve had lots of time to wax philosophic and to make resolutions that are as courageous as New Year’s and might last half as long.

After a week of being rather miserable, I felt pretty well and I decided it was time for the ocean and I to meet again.  I walked in as high tide rolled in.  I let some waves crash on me; I ducked others, diving underneath into the crisp water.  It was me, the ocean, and the sky.

The waves were bigger and the challenge greater.  I laughed out loud; I surfed on top or flipped underneath.  Every crash made me laugh more and took my breath.  My heart pounded with freedom and happiness.  It was a euphoria I needed.  There was still one challenge I could face.  I felt alive and ready to face anything.

The whole ride took maybe fifteen minutes but it was a rebirth of the soul.  I felt proud as I knifed through difficult waves; I laughed in exhilaration as one totally crashed into me, flooding all my senses (and one eardrum is still ringing and wet).  I am no athlete and the ocean is not easy!

I’m reminded of the Blue October song, and I’m ready to let go and let the hurricane take me.  Read the lyrics.  It’s me.

Let Me Bleed!

Amy and I have been blood sisters for several years now, encouraging each other to donate blood when we can. I have been out of the habit due to first my pregnancy, then nursing a baby. I am not sure if nursing precludes donation, but I had enough going on!

Anyway it’s my job to drag her to the gym, and her job to drag me to be poked by needles. We went after the gym today and poor Amy failed the iron test.

But I bled just fine. I really detest the needle stick, but it’s worth it to save lives. Thanks for the motivation, Amy!

Do you donate? If not, give it a shot. It’s easy and the cookies afterward are tasty.

Hobby Jump Start: Circle City Aquarium Club

I’ve been seeing their ads in the classifieds at work, and in the back of my favorite aquarium magazine, for years, and kept intending to go.  I never found the time.

My aquarium hobby has fallen into disrepair with my busy life taking over.  My fish haven’t suffered- I keep low stock levels.  But the appearance of the tanks has definitely taken a bad turn.  I look at the tanks and just feel like someone could write “clean me” in the algae.  Or “failure.”

I’ve also been unable to find the kind of hobbyists I used to know in Bloomington, when I worked at an aquarium store.  The folks bred their own fish, had really nice setups, and cared for the creatures- not buying something that was ‘cool’ only to kill it.  The South side pet stores include chains who don’t know fish and a semi-local chain with a good selection of fish but horrible husbandry habits.  They churn through livestock and personnel so much that it is really sad.

So Carlton almost forced me to go to this meeting.  I’m so glad I did.  Aquarium nerds are a lot like Gen Con nerds, but with different witty sayings on their t-shirts.  They are also some of the nicest people on the planet.